I admit I've been quite relaxed on the blog commenting front , but it's not blog adulation I'm seeking basking in the sunlight of comments . It's really about documenting how I feel on my blog , I share stuff my husband or son wouldn't share that's me .
And for me to feel relaxed and not beholden to commenting is a release.
That's not to say I won't comment on blogs , I certainly rt them.
What matters to me is me .
What matters is cake.

What matters is the cake is a #randomnactofkindness
What matters is the cake is a gift from a neighbour whose husband is poorly .
What matters is my husband was able to help the neighbour.
What's matters is life .