Tuesday, 3 January 2012

Domestic Violence

One should never suffer this but many women and men, children are scared to speak out on this. I often wonder to what ends my life would have been different I had spoken out as a child?

 I don't suppose I can't say much there is probably some legal ramifications if I do?


All I can say until someone tell me otherwise I suffered this growing up  not just from my father   suffered but at the hands of my Bi Polar mother also physically and verbally.

Will this put people off my blog .. unsure ... probably

Don't suffer in silence when it comes to Domestic Violence
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It's heart breaking when you parents divorce but when your father just wants to take your cat that's just odd, mind you it was a rather cleaver cat with loyalty of a dog unquestioning , so that's probably why it suited my father.

I have put this emotions into a box yet the box is always in danger of opening .. yes its been a few years since these events.

But please think on if you moan about your mum interfering with your daily life or your dad going on about the price of things again.

Do I regret my way of life now .. not really you have to get on with things don't you.

Project 366 day 3

Today I was meant to walk down the road and show you the lovely Countryside in my village/suburbia.

Not a chance you seen the freaky weather out there?

I just stood at my door and quickly took this lovely isn't it?


So perhaps tommorow .......

Saturday, 31 December 2011

So long 2011 onto 2012

I may exhibit middle class values or traits but you don't know is I keep my personal family issues at bay normally.

My family has issues that would indeed keep the EastEnders script writers going forever. I am the product of a broken & violent home yes.

Do I have mother and father issues yes.

Do I appear apathetic sometimes? yes and people just don't get me.

Do I give a monkeys ? Well actually I do as I am sensitive but for 2012 I am getting a back bone and being less sensitive.

Is it right to document my family woes? Not so sure on that one , yes you would be crying your eyes out but at what cost?

So for 2012 I will concentrate on me, my family (the three of us) and my blog.


Thursday, 22 December 2011

The Ultimate Christmas Meme .. honest I promise you...


I am Organised for Christmas the death of the High Street can belayed squarely at my door , yes go blame me... I Shopped online for everything. Even wining prizes for my Sister in law ,nieces and nephews ( I am tight?!)

The Christmas song circa 1975 is

The Wombles ...............



Hot chocolate, egg nog or mulled wine?
Mulled wine after I made my own my one culinary success .. Egg nog ? is that like Noggin the Nog? it is isn't it?

When do you put your decorations up?

I nudge nudge .. direct said Mr T to the task in hand last week, somewhere around the 12th. This has been his his tradition as his dad's birthday is on the 12 th of December! I work in a school it has been Christmas since early November . My sons Christmas tree had a part in my school play and I forgot to bring his tree back home = bad mum

They come down early too Mr T is supertiscous have never seen him move so quick on any other day of the year if getting Christmas decorations was an Olympic sport he would indeed win a gold medal bless him ( cough)


What are you having for Christmas dinner?

I'll not lie I can't cook I am off my Christmas dinner down the local pub Mr T is breathing a sigh of relief!




What’s your favourite Christmas tradition?

Watching BBC Sports Personality of the Year while drinking lots of Sherry except this year ( insert swear word ) Mr T has put the blooming football on as I am writing this whilst glaring at him.... Oh is it because no women have been nominated for it .. mmm probably...insert (swear word ... husband)

Have you ever gone carol singing?

Yes when I was a child and I was part of the school choir it was rather fun as I remember and harks back to a trouble free era !
When did you discover the truth about Santa?

Excuse me I didn't pay £2000 from my car crash money not to see him in his home country so of course he exists .. silly.

How do you decorate your Christmas tree?


With my hands! No really I let my child loose and then go rearrange it when he's not looking .. ( only a little bit ) I have decorations he made in reception etc which we use as well . The ones we bought whilst holidaying in Florida in the middle of August and of course the extra baubles when we forgot where we put the decorations one year.

Thanks to http://thefivefsblog.blogspot.com/ for tagging me and keeping me sane whilst Mr T put the football on instead of the BBC Sports Personality of the Year.

Disclosure ( Written under the influence of Christmas Sherry ... always drink responsibly whilst blogging )