A conservation reared itself today which made me upset and think back to a conservation I had with an old boss.
Working in a schools its hard nigh on impossible to get time off only for deaths ,family emergencies etc.
So a few years ago when my Nan died I had to arrange the funeral, family matters made it impossible for my mother to do this. So I went to my boss at the time and asked for time off to arrange the funeral and to grieve . Her response to this was NO you get one day off for the funeral and have to be back in work the next day. My Nan lived over 250 miles away in Kent , so I had to arrange the funeral for half term, leaving my Nan in the morgue as a connivance to my boss at the time.
So can I forgive my old boss for this in away No its always there but I can respect the qualities she did have , even if humanity at the time was not one of them.
So could you forgive a situation like this, we all make mistakes don't we but our some mistakes too big to forgive for?
Working in a schools its hard nigh on impossible to get time off only for deaths ,family emergencies etc.
So a few years ago when my Nan died I had to arrange the funeral, family matters made it impossible for my mother to do this. So I went to my boss at the time and asked for time off to arrange the funeral and to grieve . Her response to this was NO you get one day off for the funeral and have to be back in work the next day. My Nan lived over 250 miles away in Kent , so I had to arrange the funeral for half term, leaving my Nan in the morgue as a connivance to my boss at the time.
So can I forgive my old boss for this in away No its always there but I can respect the qualities she did have , even if humanity at the time was not one of them.
So could you forgive a situation like this, we all make mistakes don't we but our some mistakes too big to forgive for?