Tuesday, 9 July 2024

Just Doing What You Can Self Help

No longer I am saying “ I can’t do this “ instead I am saying “ I am doing what I can “
Then if it’s not good enough then tough , there’s a culture of trying to do all you can . Stop ad it’s one mind loop that you don’t want to be on for the rest of your life.

If someone says “ I should know X Y Z then I refer them to paragraph one ( not literally but it is blooming tempting )

In a world that never stops, we are often caught in the whirlwind of endless to-do lists and unattainable perfection. We strive for the extraordinary, chase the impossible, and often find ourselves falling short of our own expectations. But what if the secret to a fulfilling life isn't in doing it all, but in mastering the art of doing what you can?


The Power of Small Steps

Imagine standing at the base of a mountain, looking up at the peak. The journey seems daunting, perhaps even impossible. But every mountain is climbed one step at a time. Each small step, each modest achievement, brings you closer to the summit. This is the essence of doing what you can.

Instead of focusing on the entire journey, concentrate on the next step. Break down your goals into manageable tasks. Whether it’s writing a novel, starting a business, or simply organizing your home, tackle it one piece at a time. Celebrate each small victory, for they collectively pave the way to greater success.

Embrace Your Limits

Contrary to popular belief, acknowledging your limits is not a sign of weakness. It is an act of wisdom and self-awareness. Understanding what you can realistically achieve allows you to set practical goals and avoid burnout. It’s about recognizing that you are human, with finite energy and resources.

By embracing your limits, you can focus your efforts where they matter most. Prioritize tasks that align with your values and passions. Let go of the unnecessary and the overwhelming. In doing so, you’ll find that you can accomplish more than you ever thought possible, simply because you’re no longer weighed down by the unrealistic.

The Gift of Grace

Life is unpredictable, and even the best-laid plans can go awry. When things don’t go as expected, it’s essential to give yourself grace. Forgive your missteps and learn from them. Understand that perfection is an illusion and that the beauty of life often lies in its imperfections.

Grant yourself the kindness you would offer a dear friend. Be gentle with your self-criticism and generous with your self-praise. Remember that doing what you can is enough. You are enough.

Mindfulness in Action

Mindfulness is more than just a buzzword; it’s a powerful tool for living a balanced life. By being present in each moment, you can fully engage with the task at hand. This focus not only enhances your productivity but also brings a sense of peace and satisfaction.

When you are mindful, you are more attuned to your needs and capacities. You can better gauge when to push forward and when to take a step back. This awareness ensures that your efforts are sustainable and that you remain in harmony with yourself and your surroundings.

The Ripple Effect

When you adopt the art of doing what you can, you inspire those around you. Your balanced approach to life can motivate others to reevaluate their own frenzied pace. By setting an example, you contribute to a culture that values well-being over relentless striving.

Remember, your actions create ripples in the lives of others. By doing what you can, you not only improve your own life but also positively impact those around you. It’s a subtle yet profound way to make a difference.


In conclusion, the art of doing what you can is a practice of self-compassion, realistic goal-setting, and mindful living. It’s about finding joy in the journey and peace in the present. As you navigate the complexities of life, remember that your worth is not measured by your achievements but by your authenticity and effort.

So, take a deep breath, embrace your limits, and take that next step. You are exactly where you need to be, and what you can do is more than enough.


As Claire I’m 

Exploring life’s intricate tapestry, one thread at a time.


Using A Cashback Site To Shop

Using A Cashback Site To Shop 

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It isn't too late to sneak those Christmas presents you've been putting off and go and order them now ! I regularly use Topcashback when I do my online shop and it is great to be able to shop and get something back at the same time I love this modern wizardry of shopping it is so very magical and virtually stress free in fact the only stress you might have is choosing the right gift for your relative etc!

And the beauty of not only using a Cashback site to do your Christmas shopping where you can choose to have your cahback with straight into your bank account ,pyapal or any number of vouchers is that if you choose to go down the voucher option you can again get cash back on your purchase when you again go through the Cashback site . It is the gift that never ends and we all like those sorts of gifts it is like Charlie and the Chocolate factory and the everlasting Gobstopper.


I used my cash back to swap for Not On the High street voucher through Top Cashback and then I used this to send my mum a Hamper which she was utterly delighted with.And I used the art of my cassock to treat myself to an Amazon voucher so everyone wins and my mum is happy which is all that really matters to me.


Monday, 8 July 2024

Soaring Vet Costs And How Unfair They Are

I haven't written in a while about the cat and I just though I should after all it is the Ninjakilleract blog and even though we no longer have Rollie with us sadly we do still have Jack and he is a unique character in himself.Jack has managed well on is own despite the friendly rivalry with Rollie. We did think about another cat when we lost Rollie but after thinking long and hard about it we decided against it and just had Jack on his own.


Jack is not without his expense like any cat and he now needs a more potent flea treatment than your bog standard one you might get from Amazon or any supermarket.And I was discussing how often he would need worming if I switched over to the worming tablet the vets offer.



“ oh every 3 months if they’re a potent hunter “

“ oh he doesn’t bother much nowadays “

So of course later on I found a mouses liver in my kitchen ..



Dormeo Silver Plus Mattress

At the moment we are in the throws of the teen doing his GCSE's no fuss, no tantrums cool as a cucumber he is ; the only signs of the marauding teen is when he comes down for food. I liken it no a house trained hamster but less noise well that is till he puts his music on whilst showering then it sounds like a night club. A happy teen is a contended teen which makes for a more relaxed parent and being well rested is number one on the list as if a teen doesn't sleep well then all hell can break loose and worse still performance could suffer at school.

A good mattress is essential and that is where Dormeo stepped in just before my son started his GCSE's which was ideal as that means I could tackle cleaning the teens room as well a job not for the faint hearted. I open his bedroom window for fresh air he closes it and so begins the cat and mouse game , oh  the fun we have.


We have a memory foam mattress ourselves so we don't need to drag the teen round the mattress shop complete with eye rolling , the teen couldn't believe it when the mattress arrived all vacuum packed and rolled up in a long slender  cardboard box. It would seem all the cool mattresses are doing this nowadays  When you open the packaging do make sure you do this in the room where the mattress is going so you don't have to shuffle it up the stairs. Of course if you do ( ahherm then it is most light and manageable to do so )


The mattress naturally inflates itself and you leave it flat for 18 hours , it then naturally inflates itself to its intended height over the course of the day.

The Dormeo Silver plus is an Italian design and one of the key features stated is its sanitised protection. It is named as such as it incorporates real silver fibres into a super Ecocell. Silver has been recognised as a natural antibiotic and this provides an anti-bacterial, anti-static, anti-bacterial and anti-odour properties.  


The Mattress has super magical powers in my opinion it contains bling ( silver) for the teen we opted for the single mattress.






This is a  top quality Dormeo memory foam mattress has a super-thick Ecocell® and memory foam core, with an extra plush Silver cover for maximum comfort, support and protection. Silver protection Silver has long been recognised as a remarkable natural antibiotic and, weaved into our mattress cover in combination with Sanitized® protection, it affords you amazing anti-bacterial, anti-static and anti-odour properties. Ecocell is a patented foam with 3D open cell structure designed to work in unison with Dormeo memory foam. 20mm of Dormeo’s high quality visco-elastic memory foam sits on a 180mm layer of Ecocell® foam, all surrounded by a luxury cover which incorporates real silver fibres and Sanitized® protection




The Teens Impressions

The teens impressions were favourable and loved the fact that he didn't sink into the mattress , and that we was able to sit on it and do his revision ( despite US having brought him a rather pricey desk). He also found that he was able to lounge and do his gaming when he wasn't revising or sleeping.

The Parents view 

The package arrived in a long slender cardboard box as the mattress was vacuum pack * I repeat do not unpack the mattress till you have reached the final resting place ( see what I did there ) . The mattress will take 18 hours to reach its required height which is the same amount of time you spent in the supermarket queue to be honest.

Fim star looks

As this is a special mattress it doesn't scrimp on looks either , the colour is white and both the sticking and weave are superior quality to anything I have seen on a mattress before. The Dormeo branding can be seen on both the sides and top of the mattress well if you've got it you flaunt it. The size of the mattress is 90 cm x 190cm)



The cost

This mattress retails at £249 as it is currently in the sale and it carries a guarantee of 15 years , which I am happy about as it will take him well into his adulthood , next mattress he can obtain himself.

Teenager update

I told the teen to warm up before running and warm down but would he listen ~ nope he is currently negotiating running a bath this is first for him , so here is hoping he doesn't flood the bathroom. He now taken himself to lie down on his bed with his legs effortlessly cushioned by his new mattress ~ bless his little cotton socks.


Disclosure I was sent the mattress for the teen all reviews and words are ours , also we have learnt an important lesson that we should listen to our parents.

Hidden Gems Of York - York Nuclear Cold War Bunker -

Hidden Gems Of York - York Nuclear Cold War Bunker 

Since the teen went to university up in York we’ve been up there rather a lot on various mission s , fetching and carrying that we now feel rather local. So what can you do in York that’s a little more unusual and a little of the beaten track after you’ve been mesmerised by the shambles




and eaten all the Fat Rascals ?




 What about a nuclear bunker , I love nuclear bunkers they’re so cool and interesting ( they’re funky ) I think it’s ok to take children down but bear in mind it is under ground and do make sure  they’re ok in that sort of environment before you do go down, obviously there will be references to nuclear war and the inevitable injuries that it causes.



Protecting us from Nuclear fall out is the York bunker a couple miles from York city centre and I bet in all the times you have visited York you have never been here and I urge you to go.

It was built in the late 1950s and was active from 1961 all the way to 1991.It was one of 29 sites that notified good old Blighty (Britain) that it had been the subject of a nuclear attack also measuring the ensuing nuclear fall out.The dutiful task of this fell to the Royal Observer Corps (ROC) who are now disbanded.If the worst had happened, the ROC had the rather unenviable job of being cooped in this underground bunker for 30 days whilst completing their nuclear fall-out monitoring duties.




Thankfully the Cold War didn't heat up in that way and Mr T and I were rather happy we didn't have to check the radiation levels by "quickly nipping outside " in the height of 1960's fashion with the added benefit of just a scarf covering our mouths and then have a decomination shower which was basically just a couple of hosepipes. The Government didn't deemed it necessary that the ROC get those suits that you see in films of old as they were very expensive - eek

The Bunker is now decommissioned -the York Cold War Bunker is run by English Heritage, with entry comes hour-long guided tour. Adult tickets go for £ 11 or free if you belong to English Heritage